Is the money really important?

It's important to know your expectations. Have an idea of what type of life style you want to live. Yes I know we don't know what the future may hold, and changes will take place, however at least you will have an idea of what type of financial stability you desire. As for me I always just wanted to be comfortable, but as I become older I've found it's not all about me, and being comfortable is only being content. I don't want to just be content, I want to be successful and happy and at peace:) I want to be in a position to achieve goals and help my daughter achieve her goals too, with no worries or pressure.